Fearless Females # 7--Favorite Recipe or Meal Memory

March 7 — Share a favorite recipe from your mother or grandmother's kitchen. Why is the dish your favorite? If you don't have one that's been passed down, describe a favorite holiday or other meal you shared with your family. Thank you to Lisa over at The Accidental Genealogist for supplying a month's worth of prompts celebrating Women's History Month.

Unfortunately, no family recipes have been passed down. My maternal grandmother lived alone and did not entertain. When I enjoyed a meal with Teek, it was usually out somewhere. My paternal grandmother was QUITE a cook. She took after her own mother; however her mother was a boarding house owner--cooked whatever came into her mind and could s-t-r-e-t-c-h the pot to feed any number of hungry mouths.

Grams was just such a cook. My grandfather would bring guests home for dinner and Grams would just do the "stretching the pot trick" and feed the entire table. I remember with fondness her meals....always meat and potatoes....always wonderfully delicious.

She is not the one I am choosing to blog about today. Actually, it is my other grandmother Teek....the one who didn't cook or bake....that is the subject of this memory.

Martha Marie Frederick Stark aka Teek, was a cook and baker as a wife and mother. After my Grandfather Stark died and my mother left home to set up her own family, Teek's need for making "meals" ceased. She lived alone and probably cooked the occasional dinner, but primarily relied on prepacked foods.

Now you are probably wondering why in the world I would feature her in this blog. It was her holiday fruit cocktail. For as long as I can remember, Teek would bring a holiday fruit cocktail as the appetizer to the meal. She always packaged it in two large glass jars with screw top lids. The ingredients were simple.....orange slices, grapefruit wedges and maraschino cherries. The juice was a combination of the orange and grapefruit juices....heavy on the grapefruit. You can probably see where I am going here.....the fruit cocktail was a lovely presentation; however VERY SOUR!


There it is....the fruit cocktail in the fancy wine glassesand yes, that is me...the one with the sour face!
From about age 4 or 5, I can remember sitting down to Thanksgiving and Christmas meals, seeing that little bowl of Teek's fruit cocktail and dreading spooning it into my mouth. We three Hughes kids would just force it down. Even today when thinking about Teek's Fruit Cocktail we usually make a sour face--teeth clenched.

For fun, several Christmas' ago, I decided to put together the infamous fruit cocktail as a surprise for Ken and Jeff and to give my family a little taste of their ancestry. Oddly, my two sons thought it pretty good. Go figure!

© 2010, copyright Linda Hughes Hiser

Thank you to Liz Hall Morgan

This week after posting my Treasure Chest Thursday blog about my maternal grandmother's silver spoon, I received a comment from Liz over at My Big Fat Cajun/Irish/ Scottish/English/German/ French/Southern Family Blog. Talk about a random act of kindness....she was actually able to tell me the name of the Gorham pattern of the spoon.

I was sooo excited to receive this information. It was the frosting on the cake for me and that info finished my blog.

If you haven't visited Liz, use the link above and have a look-see. I love her easy, fun style of writing. There are scanned photos and documents to enhance each blog AND she is a contributor at Find A Grave. We cemetery walkers have to stick together!

THANK YOU LIZ

91st COG--A Tribute to Women--Mary Louise Hill VanGilder

The topic for the next edition of the COG will be: A Tribute to Women! March is women's history month and a great time to honor the women on our family trees. Thank you to Jasia at Creative Gene for again hosting this event.This is will be the 4th annual edition on this topic so we're going to change it up just a bit to keep it fresh... Write a biography about a woman on your family tree starting with a timeline of their life. The timeline can be a separate post that you link to from your biography (which can itself be a series of articles) but please just submit one post to the COG.

     This is my first effort writing about my paternal great great grandmother, Mary Louise Hill VanGilder. Of late, she has been poking into my blogs.....a photo for a Smile event, a tombstone for the Tuesday meme and many mentions when I have blogged about some of her children.

     Before I begin, I do need to be honest with the reader. I never met my great great grandmother nor have any family stories been passed down. As chatty as my paternal grandmother was....I don't remember her ever regaling me with tales of her own grandmothers.....and mores the pity. The life and times of Mary Louise Hill VanGilder is solely derived from all the research I could lay my hands on, an extensive timeline I put together on The Life of Mary Louise Hill VanGilder on TimeToast and reading between all the lines.

Pioneer Background--The Hills and The Houstons

     Mary Louise Hill was born in her parents log cabin not far from the ever growing town of Morgantown, now West Virginia on November 21, 1832. Her parents were Joseph Davidson Hill and Sarah Houston.


     She was a family member of pioneer settlers in Monongalia County. Her paternal grandparents, Robert Hill and Rebecca Caldwell Hill removed from Frederick County, Virginia after Robert received 400 acres of land in Monongalia County for his service in the Revolutionary War. The Hill records in the county date back to 1789. Although Robert Hill died many years before Mary was born, her paternal grandmother, Rebecca Caldwell Hill, lived on the old family farm known as Hill Farm, not too far away and was alive until Mary was eleven (Hackney, 40).

    Her maternal grandparents were Purnell Houston and Mary Tomlinson. The Houston's were also pioneer settlers of Monongalia County having removed from Sussex County, Delaware and arriving in the county about 1790 (Hackney, 12). Mary was too young to remember much of her maternal grandfather, Purnell Houston even though he moved in with the Hills before Mary was born and he died when she was three (Pension File).

Mary and Morgantown Coming of Age

     Mary's father had a sizable piece of property given to him before his father died in 1822. Mary grew up living the life of a farm girl. She was the youngest child in a family of nine brothers and sisters; born when her mother was 41. I imagine she was doted upon by everyone. There were subscription schools in the county and perhaps that is where Mary was taught to read and write.

     During Mary's formative years she watched Morgantown grow from a community dependant on goods being brought from other towns to a self sufficient area. By 1850 turnpikes wound their way around the county, Morgantown was a port on the Monongehela River with steamboats arriving daily, steam engines were available for transporting people and goods. There was a primary school system in place along with two academies--one male--one female (Core, 327-341).

     In 1842, the first circus arrived in Morgantown. Certainly every citizen headed in town to see the various animals and oddities. From historical accounts, the elephants lumbering through town was a big event. I can only imagine little Mary's wide eyes as they passed by. I would venture a guess that most folks living in Morgantown had never seen an elephant before the circus visit (Core, 231).

Mother Mary


     On July 14, 1853, at the age of 21, Mary became the wife of John Oliphant VanGilder, a chair maker from Morgantown. They were married by the Methodist minister, Reverend Ben Ison. John, also the son of Monongalia County pioneers, had been living on his own for several years. His father died when he was about ten and John was apprenticed to a wheelwright and at age 21, he was working as a chair maker.

     Having children was no problem for Mary. I found no record of any VanGilder stillbirths. From 1854 to 1875, Mary carried to term, 11 children--4 sons and 7 daughters--her last child having been born when Mary was almost 43. Fortunately, John's income was sufficient for her to have some domestic assistance as evidenced in their 1860 federal census.

Children of John Oliphant VanGilder and Mary Louise Hill VanGilder:

-Anna Bell VanGilder born November 11, 1854
-Jacob Young VanGilder born July 12, 1857
-Joseph Hill VanGilder born November 23, 1858
-George Ethelbert VanGilder born January 27, 1861 (my paternal great grandfather)
-Sally Ellsworth VanGilder born March 11, 1863
-Robert Ross VanGilder born March 19, 1865
-Mary Frances VanGilder born November 19, 1866
-Betty Levada VanGilder born July 26, 1868
-Emma Leona VanGilder born November 26, 1870
-Lida Edna VanGilder born April 26, 1873
-Lena Gertrude VanGilder born October 08, 1875

     I have gleaned from obituaries, history books on Monongalia County and newspaper articles that family, education, work, religion and public service were important foundations in the VanGilder family. These attributes would have been fostered by both Mary and John.


Hill Sisters circa 1895 Note the Bibles
     Mary's first loss of a close family member was the death of her father, Joseph Davidson Hill on August 24, 1860, followed over a decade later by the passing of her mother, Sarah Houston Hill, on March 18, 1872. After her mother's death, Mary's older, unmarried sister, Sophia Hill, moved in with the VanGilders.

VanGilder Farm in 1886
     By 1870, John Oliphant VanGilder had turned to farming the property and was not making furniture in the Hennen Furniture Factory in Morgantown. Into the early 1900's the farm was listed as a dairy farm.

VanGilder Sisters
     The VanGilder children were beginning to marry and have children of their own. Mary's first grandchild, William Evans VanGilder, was born on December 2, 1882 in Morgantown, West Virginia. During her lifetime a total of 27 grandchildren were born and after her death four additional were added.

     Grief followed the birth as Mary's oldest daughter, Anna Bell VanGilder, died on August 4, 1883. During her lifetime, Mary saw the passing of three of her children; Anna Bell, Robert Ross VanGilder on September 26, 1890 and my great grandfather, George Ethelbert VanGilder on May 24, 1904 all in Morgantown. Two grandchildren also died, Charles Edward Boyd on May 25, 1903 at the age of four months and Mildred A. Boyd on November 20, 1906 at age eight.

     The VanGilder's also suffered a devastating tragedy when their home on Stewart Street burned on December 8, 1902. John was carried out of the burning house on a cot as he had been left immobile by a stroke. Lost in the flames were most, if not all, the priceless heirlooms from Mary's paternal grandparents, Robert and Rebecca Caldwell Hill as well as a great portion of the house, which was the original Hill log cabin. What a sorrow for Mary to see portions of her history on fire as well as rooms that held special memories from her childhood and adult life.

     She lost her husband on Valentine's Day 1904. He died several months before their son George Ethelbert. These were clearly years that Mary turned to her church and family for support. Mary was a life long member of the Methodist Church in Morgantown.

VanGilder's gathered on the front porch
     The history surrounding the VanGilder home as reported in the Morgantown newspaper in Mary's obituary and the fire devastation seem to be somewhat confusing. As an ancestor, I have read and reread them trying to make some sense of it all. The 1902 fire articles state that the VanGilder home was originally the Hill cabin--where Mary grew up. That John VanGilder had torn off the front portion of the home and added a modern frame structure. The house could not be saved as the water lines did not reach out to the Stewart Street. Mary's obituary, six years later, reported that she died in the old Hill cabin where she was born and had lived her entire life. Perhaps some of the house was saved in the fire and family and neighbors rebuilt the damaged rooms.

     The Hill/VanGilder cabin was located on the Stewart Street. Several of the VanGilder girls, when married lived in homes on Stewart Street on the VanGilder farm property. Today there is a VanGilder Avenue perpendicular to the Stewartown Road marking where the VanGilder home aka old Joseph Davidson Hill cabin once stood. This property was part of the original land grant received by Robert Hill.

     Mary Louise Hill VanGilder died from bronchial troubles at home, alone on January 24, 1908 at the age of 75. She had lived a long and rewarding life as a daughter, wife, mother and grandmother. She suffered numerous losses in life and property. She saw her hometown grow from a rural, pioneer outpost into a thriving town.

     Funeral services were held at the VanGilder home and Mary was buried on January 26, 1908, beside her husband in Mt. Union Cemetery, Union District, Monongalia County, West Virginia. The cemetery is located north of Morgantown. Surrounding her are all her grandparents, her sister, Sophia, several of her children and grandchildren.

     Mary's story will not be included in any historical books, not even in Monongalia County or Morgantown. Her obituary did run on the front page above the fold which tells me that she was a prominent and well respected individual in the Morgantown area. She was typical of most women living in pioneer areas of America. She married, raised a large family, lived with few conveniences, was active in her church and watched as her town grew from an outpost of civilization to a place with modern turn of the 20th century improvements--running water, electricity, gas lines, department stores, streetcar lines, the growth of industry--the age of industrialization had come to Morgantown.

     Mary Louise Hill VanGilder's memorial is the everlasting tribute paid to her daily by the lives that were enriched by her presence. Those teachings continue on through the generations and each descendant goes forth having learned from their link back to Mary......mothers, fathers, teachers, laborers, civil engineers, doctors, farmers, chemists, salesmen, artists, managers, ministers, and on and on.....

Rest in peace Great Great Grandmother VanGilder

Sources:
-1850 Virginia Federal Census, Morgantown, Eastern District 36, Monongalia County, page 255.

-1860 Virginia Federal Census, Morgantown, District 2&3, Monongalia County, Virginia, page 274.

-1870 West Virginia Federal Census, Morgantown, Morgan District, Monongalia County, West Virginia, page 24 (381).

-1880 West Virginia Federal Census, Morgan District, Monongalia County, ED 95, page 3 (200A).

-1900 West Virginia Federal Census, Morgan District, Monongalia County, ED 83, sheet 8A (139).
-Atlas of Marion and Monongalia Counties, West Virginia. Morgan Magisterial District, Monongalia County, West Virginia, D.J. Lake and Company, Philidelphia, 1886. -Bible of Joseph Davidson Hill, transcribed by George Ethelbert VanGilder, 1898.-Core, Earl L., The Monongalia Story: A Bicentennial History, III. Discord. McClain Printing Company, Parsons, West Virginia, 1979. -Hackney, Carrie B., The Houston History, Morgantown, West Virginia.
-Monongalia County, West Virginia Birth Records

-Monongalia County, West Virginia Marriage Records

-Morgantown Weekly Post, Morgantown, West Virginia, Thursday, December 18, 1902, page 9.

-Revolutionary War Pension File of Purnell Houston,

-The New Dominion Post, Morgantown, West Virginia, Friday, January 25, 1908, Front Page.

A special thank you to my VanGilder cousin, Laura Zavodny, who shared some of the VanGilder family photos used in this blog.© 2010, copyright Linda Hughes Hiser


Updated October, 2023

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Fearless Females #6--Heirlooms--Pin of Martha Marie Frederick Stark

March 6 — Describe an heirloom you may have inherited from a female ancestor (wedding ring or other jewelry, china, clothing, etc.). If you don't have any, then write about a specific object you remember from your mother or grandmother, or aunt (a scarf, a hat, cooking utensil, furniture, etc.). Thank you to Lisa over at The Accidental Genealogist for supplying a month's worth of prompts celebrating Women's History Month.

     As a genealogist I am very blessed to have a variety of items from which to choose for this blog. In particular, all of the items passed along from my maternal grandmother, Martha Marie Frederick Stark, are in my possession......one of those only girl of an only girl songs. My dilemma occasionally is trying to decide if the item is a Frederick or a Stark antique.

     Although I do have many pieces of jewelry along with my grandmother's diamond engagement ring, I have decided to choose a sweet little pin that probably belonged to her as a young woman. Teek (my nickname for her) was employed for many years as a stenographer before she married and I think she had numerous pieces of jewelry. This one has survived over one hundred years.

     I would guess that it was either a lapel pin or a tie/scarf tack. I have seen her in photos wearing a scarf hanging down from under her collar like a tie.

     The pin is about the size of a penny, has a little enameling on the flower petals and is 14 karat gold.

© 2010, copyright Linda Hughes Hiser

Fearless Females--# 4--Marriage Record

March 3 — Do you have marriage records for your grandparents or great-grandparents? Write a post about where they were married and when. Any family stories about the wedding day? Post a photo too if you have one.. Thank you to Lisa over at The Accidental Genealogist for supplying a month's worth of prompts celebrating Women's History Month.

Alfred Frederick and Lucinda Orr Frederickcarte d'visite

I have decided to feature my maternal great grandparents marriage records for this blog. I noticed that I was deficient in scanning many of their records two weeks ago while participating in the 2010 Winter GeneaBloggers Olympics. In fact, their marriage records were two items that I scanned and added to the external hard drive.

Alfred Frederick and Lucinda Orr were born and raised in Columbiana County, Ohio--Lucinda in Elkrun Township and Alfred in Franklin Square, Salem Township. Alfred was the son of Joseph C. Frederick and Mary Betz; Lucinda was the daughter of William Morlan Orr and Nancy Cannon. How they met is unknown, although there are other marriages in the area between the Frederick and Orr families, so perhaps they met at a mutual family gathering.

Alfred and Lou were issued a marriage license in Columbiana County on October 19, 1868 by Solomn J. Firestone, Probate Judge. They were married on October 22, 1868 by Rev. James Reinhart in Columbiana County, Ohio.

The Marriage Record was obtained by me through the Columbiana County, Ohio records office. The Marriage License was kindly sent to me by another Frederick descendant who had it among her family records.

© 2010, copyright Linda Hughes Hiser

Treasure Chest Thursday--Frederick Spoon

     This sterling silver spoon once belonged to my maternal great grandmother, Martha Marie Frederick Stark. Her monogram "MMF" Martha Marie Frederick is clearly engraved on the handle of the spoon. The bowl of the spoon is slightly smaller than the traditional teaspoon and the handle is shorter. My guess is that it was her personal spoon used for afternoon tea. A spoon used for afternoon tea is called a 4 o'clock spoon.


The back of the spoon is as intricately sculpted as the front.
     The sterling mark is prominent on the back handle and three maker's marks. Using the book, Kovel's American Silver Marks 1650 To The Present, by Ralph and Terry Kovel, page 153, as my guide, the three marks together belong to the Gorham Manufacturing Company, Providence, Rhode Island.

The year mark is located on the bottom of the spoon's bowl and is 1897.


Source:

Ralph and Terry Kovel, Kovel's American Silver Marks 1650 To The Present, Crown Publishers, New York, New York, 1961.

© 2010, copyright Linda Hughes Hiser

Fearless Females--Prompt #3--Name Game

March 3 — Do you share a first name with one of your female ancestors? Perhaps you were named for your great-grandmother, or your name follows a particular naming pattern. If not, then list the most unique or unusual female first name you’ve come across in your family tree. Thank you to Lisa over at The Accidental Genealogist for supplying a month's worth of prompts celebrating Women's History Month.

     I was not named for anyone in my family tree. The Linda came from a popular song in 1947 and the Lee, probably because it went nicely with Linda. Although my paternal grandmother used to say, with a big smile on her face, the Lee is because you have ancestors from West "By God" Virginia. I guess that was a reference to Robert E. What I never understood was her reference...although he was a southerner, West Virginia did not consider itself a southern sympathizer.

     I am choosing an unusual female name from my ancestry. BATHSHEBA Griffith Ferguson, my paternal great great great great great great (yes, 6th great) grandmother. Occasionally I see her name as Barsheba. She was born in 1739 to Samuel Griffith, Jr. and Anne Skinner in Calvert County, Maryland.

     About 1755 she married John Ferguson in Prince Georges County, Maryland. The Fergusons had seven children and all but one removed to Monongalia County, (West) Virginia with their spouses.

     Bathsheba died in 1800 in Monongalia County, (West) Virginia. I do have a copy of her will and also the disposition of her worldly goods following her death. The documents show that the Fergusons were plantation and slave owners, even in Monongalia County. They had a sizable piece of property and pages and pages of items to be disposed of following her death. My guess is that Bathsheba lived a pretty prosperous life and had plenty of servants to do her bidding.

     I imagine that Bathsheba and her husband, John, were buried in the old cemetery in Morgantown, West Virginia. Due to the expansion of the town and West Virginia University, many of those buried in that cemetery were removed to East Oak Grove. There are numerous old tombstones on the hill and less than half are readable. The Fergusons are probably among them.

© 2010, copyright Linda Hughes Hiser