Step--Mom Stepping Out of Her Comfort Zone

     Amy Johnson Crow has a 52 Ancestors Week blog challenge which I have decided to join.  I am hoping it may help me to pinpoint someone or something that I have researched and not blogged about on Flipside.  AND push me to blog about family each week in 2024.  Sometimes I get lazy. 😁  Let's see how well I keep up.

     Week # 16 (April 15-April 21) is Step. 

     Several decades ago, before she passed, I had my Mom stay overnight for a genealogy sleepover.  I wanted to interview her about her memories of family.  Two items she brought up, that thoroughly shocked me, was that she had always been an introvert and when she was in elementary school she had a speech impairment--she stuttered. 

     My mother was a very outgoing woman and one area in which she excelled was theater.  I knew about her life "on the boards".  She was active in community theater when I was in elementary school.  Following her death I was able to go through many photographs and school yearbooks that were part of her estate.  If her statement regarding her shyness and lack of confidence speaking in front of a group due to her stutter is true, in many areas of her life, my Mom stepped out of her comfort zone.

  

     Early in her elementary school years, it was decided that my Mom should take elocution lessons to improve her speech.  She had an aunt, Emily Stark Miller, who was a well regarded elocution teacher and performer.  Aunt Emily lived nearby in the Borough of Avalon, outside Pittsburgh.  She became my Mom's teacher.  

The Pittsburgh Press,
December 20, 1931,
page 33

     At age 10, my mother, Martha Jean Stark, began presenting oral readings at the local Parent Teacher Association meetings. 

     Mom was active in junior high school and high school.  Her 1939 Yearbook featured some of her interests and accomplishments among them the Editor-in-chief of the school yearbook, acting in two plays, producing a Christmas play, feature writer on the school newspaper and class vice president.  She and Dad, George VanGilder Hughes, were both Commencement speakers.  Frankly, she does not appear to be either an introvert or have any residual speech problems by her senior year in high school.  

Mom modeling college fashions
Kaufmann's Department Store
Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania

Mom with her pearls
College of Wooster
Senior Year 1943

     Off to the College of Wooster.  By her junior year, she had pledged, was performing in the school's theater and member of the honorary, was on the debate seminar and a department head of the school newspaper.  In her senior year she was elected to the Big Four Cabinet, Debate and member of the honorary and member of the Student Senate. 

     Following graduation, Mom and Dad married and in 1947 I was born.  After my brother Ken's birth in 1952, Dad spent a year and a half in Korea.  Mom was now in charge.  Two young children, maintenance of the house and finances plus she had to learn how to drive!  

Sight Unseen Program
1957

The Allegheny Journal
Thursday, May, 25, 1957

Royal Family Program
1958

Pittsburgh Post Gazette
May 13, 1959
page 12

     In the mid 1950's into 1962, Mom joined church and local organizations, entertained and became very active in the church's theater group, The Hiland Players.  

Pittsburgh Post Gazette
Thursday, March 24, 1966
page 35

     The move to a new home in a new neighborhood ended Mom's theater days for a decade.  Instead she now turned to leadership in the Boy Scouts, church circles and hospital organizations.  

     Back to the boards in the 1970's for some community theater.  Mom and her son, Jeff, were cast in Kismet and she did makeup for Carousel.

     In the 1980's and until her death in 1999, Mom was active in the Cleveland, Ohio area where she moved.  Church circles and activities, volunteer at the local hospital, College Club West, The Women's Board of a local hospital and Women's Committee of Great Lakes Theater Festival.  

     Introvert?  If she was, she stepped out of her comfort zone for decades.  I am an introvert and strive to push myself out of my comfort zone daily.....just like Mom.     

 

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Favorite Recipe--Tea cakes, Pies and Bread, Oh My!

     Amy Johnson Crow has a 52 Ancestors Week blog challenge which I have decided to join.  I am hoping it may help me to pinpoint someone or something that I have researched and not blogged about on Flipside.  AND push me to blog about family each week in 2024.  Sometimes I get lazy. 😁  Let's see how well I keep up.

     Week # 14 (April 1-April 7) is Favorite Recipe. 

     Not even a question here, West Hartlepool/Hartlepool, England baking.  In 2003 when my brothers and I crossed the pond we had no idea all of the Hughes family lore, pictures and home baked goodies we would bring home.  

     Wonderful tea cakes were served during an afternoon tea at Mary and John Marsh's home at 23 Borrowdale Street in Hartlepool.  John George Marsh is my paternal first cousin twice removed.  His wife, Mary Pounder Marsh treated us to several of her cakes.  Unfortunately, I did not take any photos of the delicious array sweet treats.  

     Mary and I corresponded by snail mail for at least a year following the trip and she shared a couple of the recipes she served that afternoon.  

Mary Ann Storey Hughes
standing in front of the Hughes Green Grocer shop
cover, Reflections beneath the Wagga Moon

     John Marsh grew up with his parents, Eli Marsh and Mary Alice Hughes Marsh, at 70 Florence Street, West Hartlepool, England in the home of his maternal grandparents, George Henry Hughes and Mary Ann Storey Hughes.  The Marshes are listed in the electoral rolls of 1930 as residents in the Hughes household.  

     John's maternal grandmother and my paternal great great grandmother, Mary Ann Storey Hughes, Annie Hughes, was quite a baker.  She is mentioned in the booklet, Reflections beneath the Wagga Moon.  I like to think that the recipes Mary Pounder Marsh shared had been passed down to her from Mary Ann Storey Hughes to her daughter, Mary Alice Hughes Marsh to her daughter-in-law, and are the recipes my paternal great great grandmother used to sell in the shop.

     In 2021, I decided to try baking a few of the recipes.  

Basic Cake Recipe

     One variation was adding 2 ounces of coconut to the batter 

and whipped cream and toasted coconut to the top.

Another variation was to add 1 tablespoon of cocoa

and 1/2 teaspoon Bicarbonate of soda to the batter.

      I only attempted the two variations of the basic cake recipe.  Mary also sent me recipes for gingerbread, Bakewell tart, almond cake and a split cake with cream and jam.   

P.S.  Thankfully I have a wonderful friend who has lived in England her entire life and she was able to help me with some of the ingredients and oven conversions. 💖

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Worship--Saint Aidan's Church, Hartlepool, England

    Amy Johnson Crow has a 52 Ancestors Week blog challenge which I have decided to join.  I am hoping it may help me to pinpoint someone or something that I have researched and not blogged about on Flipside.  AND push me to blog about family each week in 2024.  Sometimes I get lazy. 😁  Let's see how well I keep up.

     Week # 14 (March 25-March 31) is Worship. 

The Hughes Kids
Hartlepool Wall
The Headland
August 3, 2003

     Back in 2003, when my two brothers and I crossed the pond we had Hartlepool, County Durham, England in our sights.  Our Hughes/Storey lineage traces back to West Hartlepool and Hartlepool in the 1800's and beyond.  The Hughes actually removed from the Wordsley, Birmingham, England area, and further back from Wales.  

     The municipal brough of West Hartlepool was created in 1887 and in 1967 the Brough of Hartlepool was created by combining West Hartlepool and Old Hartlepool.  

St. Aidan's Church
Hartlepool, England
August 3, 2003

     We had a laundry list of family and places to visit during our three day visit. One important building was Saint Aidan's Church, now known as Saint Aidan and Saint Columba Church.  The church opened in 1890

The Alter
St Aidan's Church 

My brother Jeff
St Aidan's Church
Hartlepool, England
August 3, 2003

     

     Our first day in Hartlepool was a Sunday and we had planned to attend church services at St Aidan's.  I was surprised at the small attendance.  As I walked into the sanctuary, I had goosebumps thinking how generations of our Hartlepool Hughes family had been baptized/baptised, married and buried from this very church.  

     

George Henry Hughes (Pop Pop)
Baptized at St Aidan's Church
West Hartlepool, England
Easter Sunday, April 10, 1898

Ken and I in front of the baptismal font

     The baptismal font in St Aidan's Church where my paternal grandfather, George Henry Hughes was baptized on Easter Sunday, April 10, 1898.  

George Henry Hughes
May 9, 1930
Obituary

Mary Ann Storey Hughes
March 16, 1935
Obituary

     My Paternal great grandparents obituaries, both services were held at St Aidan's Church.

     Even into the 2000's Hughes family members continue to have their services in St Aidan's Church.  One cousin we met in 2003, Alan Hughes, died in 2009 and his funeral service was held at St Aidan's.

     My morning attending a service at St Aidan's Church has become a cherished memory.  The thought that I was surrounded by sights and sounds of my Hughes ancestors gave me comfort and peace.

St Aidan's Church

Hartlepool Then and Now

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Technology--Linda's Awakening

     Amy Johnson Crow has a 52 Ancestors Week blog challenge which I have decided to join.  I am hoping it may help me to pinpoint someone or something that I have researched and not blogged about on Flipside.  AND push me to blog about family each week in 2024.  Sometimes I get lazy. 😁  Let's see how well I keep up.

     Week # 12 (March 18-March 24) is Technology. 

     Linda grabs hold of computer technology and doesn't let go.  I decided to do this blog about myself. 😀

     I am hard pressed to pin an exact date on when the computer entered our home.  It was in the early days, internet hookup was through the telephone line (dial-up), everything was very slow, no Google yet, we used Prodigy.  

     My husband seems to think we had the first home computer sometime in the early 1990's.   It was a big bulky Gateway.  Ted was adamant that we get the computer.  My response, "Go ahead and buy it.  I will probably never even use it."  

     He was so excited when he got home with all the boxes.  We set it up in the extra bedroom, plugged it in and pushed the on button.  Nothing.  Second try.  Plugged it in, pushed the on switch and NOTHING! Following a line of expletives, Ted boxed it all up and headed back to the store.  Our first attempt was one colossal FAIL.       

     An hour later, Ted returned with more boxes.  Apparently, the first computer was missing its hard drive.  Third time was the charm, plugged it in, pushed the on switch and slowly a picture appeared on the screen.  Now what?  Ted sat down and got all the information necessary into the computer.  We still did not have any internet service.  We practiced keyboarding, writing gobbledygook and printing it.  

     There was new language with this invention coming into the house.  Typing was called keyboarding.  We had to purchase floppy disks to store information.  Software, applications, mother board, monitors, processing system, search engines, Microsoft, viruses, worms, phishing, Windows, Mac and on and on.

     When the monster was working and we added internet connectivity, I began to, slowly, play around with it.  I was actively engaged in genealogy research and decided to use the search engine called Yahoo, to see what I could find. 

      Through surfing, I found US GenWeb and I was off and running.  I was able to locate and email with other folks interested in genealogy who were able to help me in the states and counties where I was tracing ancestors.  I could add information and folks contacted me.  More genealogical avenues online and to download became available.  

    Progressing into the late 1990's, I was the one who was spending the most time on the home computer.  More sophisticated models were purchased, the home computer was moved into an area in the basement with all my genealogy hard copy nearby.  The home computer became MINE.  

     Remember MySpace?  Finding and joining Ancestry, Find-A-Grave, Facebook, Family Tree Maker, my own genealogy home pages, my own blog, Flipside, begun on January 3, 2009, hundreds of on line search engines and probably the most important find for me was was GenaBlogger.

     Like most of us, with the advent of laptops, I was able to take my files with me, not just genealogy, all of my files.  And my laptop does travel.  In fact I am the techie in the family.  Always packed is the laptop, iPad, cell phone, all of the connection cords, external hard drive and a power strip.  

 

     Although my first response to a home computer was negative, the technology, once I became acquainted, became a daily adventure.  Not just genealogy.  Building my recipe file, shopping and buying on line, dinner reservations, vacation searches and reservations, gardening information, health, Zoom and Face Time--pretty much everything I do is online.  I guess I have become a mouse potato over the past couple of decades. 😁

 

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School Days--My memories from the 1950's

     Amy Johnson Crow has a 52 Ancestors Week blog challenge which I have decided to join.  I am hoping it may help me to pinpoint someone or something that I have researched and not blogged about on Flipside.  AND push me to blog about family each week in 2024.  Sometimes I get lazy. 😁  Let's see how well I keep up.

     Week # 15 (April 8-April 14) is School Days. 

     I have touched on this subject in other blogs; however, I've never addressed it in total.  Again it features moi.  I am finding that some of the 52 Ancestors Weeks topics I have blogged about ad infinitum on other family members.  I guess the time about me has come. 😁

1952 All ready for Kindergarten

     

     I can remember that I was very excited to be going to Kindergarten when I turned five.  My Dad was not the photographer.  He serving with the Army in Korea as the head doctor at an aid station somewhere on the front lines.  I imagine my Mom and Dad's oldest friend and now our neighbor, Dr. Joseph N. Arthur, took the photograph.  

     As I carefully inspect the photo up close, the dress was definitely made by my maternal Grandmother aka Teek.  As I conveyed in her blog, she made almost all of my clothes while I was in elementary school.

West View Street Car # 10

     

     My Mom never drove a car until Dad was sent to Korea.  I wonder who taught her to drive?  The late summer of 1952 was the beginning of an annual trip into Pittsburgh to buy the new school necessities.  I know Mom did not drive the two of us in town.  I imagine she drove the car into the Borough of West View and we took the streetcar into Pittsburgh.  

     My brother, Ken, was born that year; however, he was never part of the trip.  Where was he?  Who was taking care of him for the day?  Maybe Grams and Pop Pop came to the house to watch him.  Maybe Pop Pop actually drove Mom and I to West View.  So many questions.  What's an almost seventy-seven year old to remember back seventy-two years.  😊  

This picture is from an earlier time;
however, this is where Teek was sitting

     We got off the street car somewhere near Joseph Horne's Department Store.  Teek was always there before us and would wave as we walked in the front entrance.  She choose a chair at the front of the balcony overlooking the first floor.   

Remember these?????

     After hugs we headed to the children's shoe department for those practical school shoes.  It was an era of shoe salesmanship when the salesman would pull out a metal foot measuring tool and actually fit the shoes to your foot.  Imagine that!

     And, when it came to practical shoes in the 1950's, it was Buster Brown.  

     We had a TV in our home by 1953, when Dad came back from Korea and Buster Brown and Tide commercials were shown in the morning with the children's programs.  Of course every child, who was fortunate to have a television in the home, desired a Buster Brown shoe.

     That first year, the routine was purchasing school shoes, gratefully paid for by Teek, and then to the Horne's Tea Room for lunch.

1953 First Grade

     The August ritual continued to be in place in 1953.  New Buster Brown shoes and a metal lunch box added.

     I'm not certain how many more years this very special August event took place; however, I do know it was at a minimum until August of 1956 when I was entering fourth grade.  

     Added to the shoe purchase was a pencil box.  In the 50's the boxes were heavy duty cardboard, like a cigar box.  They were sold in a special table on Horne's first floor.  It was fun to choose one with a favorite picture on top.  

     The last pencil box I selected was a larger one that had a pull out drawer in it.  More room for all those school supplies, pencils, crayons, scissors, ruler, etc.  

     I know by 1958 and my last year in elementary school, the school shoes and supplies were purchased at the local shopping mall.  Looks like I moved from Mary Jane's to penny loafers.  Ruthie and I turned in our lunch box and pencil box for matching brief cases.  

     

 

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